1. It’s okay with you when your partner spends time with friends or family.

2. Your partner thinks it’s okay when you spend time with friends

3. Your partner likes the way you look and act and tells you so

4. You both decide how to spend your time together.

5. Your partner has the power to make you feel bad – and used it.

6. Your partner pressures you to do sexual things you don’t want to do

7. When you refuse to do certain sexual things, your partner puts you down.

8. Your partner has threatened to hurt you or has hurt you.

9. You feel full of happiness in this relationship.

10. You are afraid of your partner’s temper, so you avoid making him/her angry.

11. Your partner says “I can’t live without you” and it scares you that it might be true.

12. You worry that the relationship might end and would do anything to keep it going.

13. You think you can make your partner’s problems go away.

14. Your partner believes that jealousy is a proof of love.

15. You’ve both agreed that you’re a couple and you trust each other to stick to it.

16. Your partner would never put you at risk regarding pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease.

17. You both can be honest about your feelings and talk about them freely.